| As
the summer holidays draw to an end this means many children
will soon come face to face with those bullies once again.
It is not always easy to tell if your child is being bullied.
Some symptoms to look out for are:
- Your child getting upset at the thought of going to school
- Your child saying he feels too 'unwell' to attend school
every
day
- A change in the usual behaviour pattern of your child
- he/she may become very quiet, resentful or be more
demanding of your
time.
- Unexplained cuts and bruises
There are
many websites that offer advice to Parents, Victims and Teachers:
Childline -
ChildLine is the UK's free, 24-hour helpline for children
in distress or danger. Trained volunteer counsellors comfort,
advise and protect children and young people who may feel
they have nowhere else to turn. Last year more than 31,000
children and young people called ChildLine about bullying.
The site offers
advice and a wide
range of resources to Children, Teenagers and Parents.
Bullying.co.uk -
Bullying Online is the nation’s best known online charity
dealing with school bullying. They have had more than
1.3 million unique visitors since they launched in 1999.
The charity
gives parents and children practical advice to help them
resolve bullying problems through tried and tested means
which they
know are successful from the vast amount of positive feedback
they receive.
Direct.gov.uk -
Directgov brings together the widest range of public
service information and services online. Produced by the Central
Office of Information, Directgov provides information
from
across
UK Government departments. They offer advice to parents
on how to identify bullying and how to combat it.
Parentscentre.gov.uk -
ParentsCentre is an official Department for Education and
Skills (DfES) website for parents and carers. They aim to
act as a reference book about the education system and a provider
of information about the myriad issues relevant to you and
your child. They offer advice to Parents on the signs
to look out for and what you should
do if your child is being bullied.
A new form of bulling has
also begun that Parents should also be aware of: Cyberbullying
Mobiles and the Internet have provided bullies with another
means to attack their victims through 'cyberbullying'. Unlike
other forms of bullying, cyberbullying can follow children
and young people into their homes
and outside school.
What are the forms of Cyberbullying?
- Text message bullying involves sending unwelcome texts
that are threatening or cause discomfort.
- Picture/video-clip bullying via mobile phone cameras is used to make the person
being bullied feel threatened or
embarrassed,
with images usually sent to other people. 'Happy slapping'
involves filming and sharing physical attacks.
- Phone call bullying via mobile phone uses silent calls
or abusive messages. Sometimes the bullied person's
phone is stolen and
used to harass others, who then think the phone owner
is responsible. As with all mobile phone bullying,
the perpetrators often disguise
their numbers, sometimes using someone else's phone
to avoid being identified.
- Email bullying uses email to send bullying or threatening
messages, often using a pseudonym for anonymity or
using someone else's
name to pin the blame on them.
- Chat room bullying involves sending menacing or upsetting
responses to children or young people when they
are in a web-based chat
room.
- Instant messaging (IM) bullying is an Internet-based
form of bullying where children and young people
are sent unpleasant messages as they conduct
real-time conversations online.
- Website bullying includes the use of defamatory
blogs (web logs), personal websites and online
personal polling sites.
There has also been a significant increase
in social networking sites for young people, which
can provide
new opportunities
for cyberbullying.
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